Sex

The Difference Between Sex and Gender

What is the difference between sex and gender identity, exactly? Whether you want to brush up on your knowledge or you’re questioning your gender identity yourself, you’ll find the answers here. Sex and gender have historically been used interchangeably, but that doesn’t mean that they’re the same thing. “We don’t know how to measure gender,”…

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CORONAVIRUS AND SEX: DOS AND DON’TS DURING SOCIAL DISTANCING.

Lately, the one topic the entire world is concerned about is the novel coronavirus. In line with that, as a sex positive neuroscience sex researcher, I am writing this article with a couple of goals: to inform readers how sex relates to the current pandemic, and to prevent the spread of myths and misinformation in…

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The Most Common Fetishes in the United States

By Dr. Evan Goldstein for Gayety In the last few years, you may have noticed that fetishes and kinks are becoming more commonly discussed. Many people are more comfortable discussing their fetishes. In part, we can attribute this to the popularity of media such as Fifty Shades of Grey which catapulted communities like BDSM into…

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How to Use Cock Rings: The Complete Guide

Cock rings, yes, they’re one of the most popular toys in the world, and for a good reason, in fact. They prevent blood from flowing back down the shaft of the penis, which makes erections feel rock-hard, and last exceptionally well, too. And why is it so good? It can mean that edging and sex (via…

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How Risky is Gay Sex?

Before we talk about sex without condoms here’s a couple of things you should know. People living with HIV who have an undetectable viral load cannot pass on the virus sexually. This is known as HIV-undetectable / U=U / HIV-U. PrEP can be taken by HIV-negative people to stop the transmission of HIV. When taken…

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Spread ‘Em: How To Give A Great Rimjob

A few tips so you can be the best you can be… Eating ass is no longer taboo. Then again, it never was for queer people. As is often the case, straight people were late to the game and came around to analingus in 2015, when it started to receive mainstream attention in rap music and HBO. Because IN is…

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The Biggest Mistakes Tops Make

You’re probably reading this headline, asking: “The biggest mistakes tops make – what about bottoms? I’ve had more cases of shit-dick than I can count!” Well, tops, while you’re right in that it does take skill to be an accomplished bottom, being an irresponsible top can cause far more serious health concerns. The ass is…

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11 Tips for Being a Better Top

Written by: ALEXANDER CHEVES Let me state this at the beginning: I am a bottom. A marathon-sex, Preparation-H, take-dick-like-a-champ bottom. I tend to outlast tops. Ten tops looking for a bottom? No problem. Why, then, am I writing this article? Because there is no one better to ask about topping than a bottom. And although…

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The Masseur and the Cop

Written by David Lee Kevin had known he was gay from the time he turned 12. While his buddies were sneaking peeks at their fathers’ Playboy Magazines, he was more interested in the centerfold of a Playgirl. His erotic knowledge grew as he learned to navigate the Internet. Fortunately for him, he had the savvy…

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8 ways to ensure your sex life stays on fleek

Words by Ian Howley As part of our ‘Big Gay Sex Survey’ we decided to ask the 3,141 men who took part if they were happy with their sex lives, and what was important to them. Here’s what they said. We asked: Are you happy with your current sex life? Yes: 47% No: 38% Not…

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Story: Finding Myself

Written by: Anthony Ryan I was just an average thirteen year old boy. The kind of boy who was easily overlooked by his peers, or relentlessly tormented by those same people. There seemed no happy medium. Either people didn’t know that I even existed, or they claimed to know more about who and what I…

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